I just don't know if I'm being unfair so opinions would be greatly received.
So I've heard through a friend that a mum at my dd's school is wanting to talk to me and ask my advice as she has been told her dd1 may have a health condition that I have and wants some advice from me about it however the issue I have is her dd2 has been relentlessly bully my dd to the point that DD has developed anxiety over going to school and having to deal with her and has been in bits the last few days about returning after the Christmas period (the school has been no help whatsoever and I'm planning on meeting with the head and going to the board of governors if needed if it continues this week, the school promotes a safe and bully free environment but it's actually rife with bullying and injuries, DD doesn't feel safe).
My DD blurted out to mum that her dd has been bullying her and she told DD to stop being so sensitive (this pissed me off) and has done nothing about it despite us having a conversation about it all and now I can't help but feel how can she have the balls to now ask for my help when she won't do anything to help the situation between the girls even though she is fully aware of it.
Aibu? In reality there is nothing I can really advise her on as my own condition is barely managed and ignored by HCP so I don't know what I can do but if I'm being honest I don't want to help at all.
My first instinct is always to help those who need it however in this case that instinct hasn't kicked in and it's irritated me more than anything. What do I do and how do I go about it?