DH has anger issues. Always had but they became more apparent when we had the children. I have spoken to him about dealing with his anger on numerous occasions. Apart from going to a few counselling sessions when we temporarily split up a few years ago he has done nothing.
He gets annoyed at the simplest of things and says 'I wouldn't get tired punching/kicking that fella in the face'. He has never been in a physical fight.
DS is 9 and has always been oppositional about most things: transitions, going out, joining new things but has lots of friends,.is very popular in school and is bright. He has very low self confidence despite me telling him repeatedly what he is good at. He has also become increasingly angry and today told his sister he would punch her in the face.
I've told DH to stop saying these things as I'm worried about the impact and he's making DS angry and aggressive. I'm at a loss what to do