Been married for 3 years, together for 6. Have a young DC.
DH is kind, caring, amazing, holds down a job, amazing father.
But I think he’s an alcoholic.
He drinks a bottle of wine every night, alone. I raised it with him, he didn’t agree it was problematic.
Shortly after I noticed that the nights he ‘wasn’t drinking’ he was actually hiding bottles and drinking it in secret.
We’ve talked about this many times, I’ve told him if he wants to drink so badly just own it but still he fucking hides it.
Thinking back he was doing this at the beginning of the relationship too, I remember small things that I now see as the same things he does when he’s drinking in secret now.
Last time he promised he wouldn’t do it any more, promised no more lies.
Yesterday eve I thought he had been drinking but couldn’t prove it. Tonight I thought he was again and found his bottle and glass.
He says he does it because he doesn’t want to be nagged!
What do I do, other than leave? I love him so much.