I have a group of friends, we all hang out together and our kids play together, we are close.
One of our friends has one child who is about a year younger than the rest of the kids and a new baby, about 5 months old. We haven't seen as much of her since the baby was born. Fair enough, she's pretty sleep deprived she says and she's struggling with both kids.
Since before her baby was born, the rest of the group and I made plans (through our husbands who are also friends) to go away for a week over the summer. It's a cycling holiday. We didn't mention it to our friend with the baby or her husband - we didn't think she'd be interested.
I told her the other day and she's been off and upset with me ever since. She said that she didn't want to come, but couldn't understand why we hadn't told her. She basically said that she thought we had been keeping secrets from her. It's true that we have been organising things between the other members of the group without including her, but we just figured she wouldn't be bothered about it.
AIBU or is she?