I have allergies. DH has witnessed the reactions during all the tests I had years ago, witnesses me taking medication and struggling on a daily basis at the moment. Yet still seems to give no shits in helping me.
My asthma has taken a horrible turn over the last few weeks since having a virus, I've had 2 frightening asthma attacks this week alone which he has also witnessed and today he fucks off to work leaving all the windows open at 6.30am, (forgot to close them after airing the house apparently), knowing the cold air is a massive trigger whilst I'm ill.
Sprays his deodorant in the hallway (also huge trigger whilst I'm unwell) instead of shut away in the bathroom.
Left a fuck ton of condensation on the windows when opening the blinds and all he has to do is use the window karcher thing which takes all of 5 seconds, when we don't do this mould gets on the walls (also a trigger for my allergies), and doesn't ever just press the on button on the dehumidifier.
Regularly fluffs the bed up before bed which involves chucking the duvet aggressively into the air several times, which means a ton of dust is thrown up in the air....again kicks off a reaction right before bed.
I do so much for him and he can't even do/not do a few basic simple tasks that really affect my health. If it was the other way around I would support him and help any way I can. It just feels like he doesn't give a shiny shit, he's an intelligent man who manages to hold down a decent job and remembers important daily tasks to do with work but can't seem to remember a few basic things for me.
AIBU?