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To ask for a handhold?

24 replies

WorriedMum2020 · 02/01/2020 00:49

I've namechanged as I might add some identifying information.

I had my son in October 2018. He was 5 lb 2oz and when he got to 3 weeks he wasn't putting much weight on. He also was hospitalised 3 times from when he was born to December 2018. He was diagnosed with cystic fibrosis. He seemed ok for a little while and now he's 14 months. For a few days he's had a bit of a cold but we weren't worried. Anyway today he woke up coughing alot and hasn't been well all day. But at dinner time he was really struggling to breath. So we phoned an ambulance and they are keeping him in. He just seems so poorly.

Can I have a handhold? 😞

OP posts:
MabelChiltern1 · 02/01/2020 00:53

Are you with your son now ? Flowers

Sparklesocks · 02/01/2020 00:58

Thinking of youFlowers❤️❤️

AuntyElle · 02/01/2020 00:59

Hand hold here 🤝 Flowers

userxx · 02/01/2020 01:00

💐

Myshitisreal · 02/01/2020 01:02

🤗 ♥

eveshopper · 02/01/2020 01:03

Thinking of you Thanks

Isadora2007 · 02/01/2020 01:04

Bless him. I hope he is getting the treatment he needs and that you’re managing some rest too. X

Naughty1205 · 02/01/2020 01:07

Bless him OP, hope everything is going OK there. Sending you both strength x

Mummyshark2019 · 02/01/2020 01:18

Hand hold from me. X Flowers

Hospitalknickers · 02/01/2020 02:02
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grincheux · 02/01/2020 02:04

Holding your hand tight. I have a friend with CF who's just turned 32. It's a rough road but it's not all doom and gloom. ❤

Rosere · 02/01/2020 02:08

The wee pet, hope he's more settled now Flowers

eaglejulesk · 02/01/2020 02:40

Hugs Flowers

NoIDontWatchLoveIsland · 02/01/2020 03:08

Winter is so crap for bugs OP. Dr was hospitalised in Nov with a breathing related illness, we were only home 3 weeks before she was back in with a second bout off the second thing:(

Your DS is in the right hands x

RachelYC · 02/01/2020 04:06

Sending hugs Flowers

DreamsAboutSummer · 02/01/2020 05:34

Thoughts are with you and your son. Flowers

lborgia · 02/01/2020 05:41

Bear for your son, and oneBear for you. And you'll need this Brew. Make sure you take short but frequent loo and tea breaks. Hospital bedsides are emotional and exhausting. Have they got a pull out chair or similar you can curl up on next to him?

AliTheMinx · 02/01/2020 06:46

Big hugs, OP. I'm sure he's receiving the best possible care x Flowers

Rainbowqueeen · 02/01/2020 06:50

Thinking of you both and hoping he improves soon
Make sure you look after yourself, keep hydrated and eat if you can

feelinglost02 · 02/01/2020 06:50

Aww I will say a little prayer for him, bless him and you Thanks

Eurekaohara · 02/01/2020 07:00

Morning! My DD2 has CF, she's almost 8. Currently in hospital too since Boxing Day. She was diagnosed at 15 days, I'll never be okay with CF but I am at a place of acceptance and hospital admissions no longer fill me with terror. It's all part of the journey..

Please feel free to DM me - we've had times when CF has faded into the background of our lives (despite the endless hours of daily treatment) and times when it has absolutely taken over everything and my DD has been really unwell. Do you have a good CF Team you trust? When my DD was a baby I found it really useful to talk to the CF Psychologist. Her specialist nurses are amazing too which has helped so much.

Sending love. You can do it.

Naughty1205 · 04/01/2020 23:14

How is your ds going OP? Hope all well?

MissLLM · 04/01/2020 23:23

I have so much sympathy. My best mate has cf and we're nearly 34. School science lessons at 12, specifically on genetics, told me my friend would die at approx. 23. That on average was the case and although she is unable to work now due to low lung function and constant hospital admissions, we are now hopeful as 3 years ago her prognosis was 2- 3 years and now there is new medicine being trialled that could mean so much longer! It's been a long and painful road and shes clearly not able to do what 'normal' people do but considering she could have died many times in our childhood, and we were warned on many hospital admissions it could happen, we are doing well and shes living her best life. Stay positive and have hope in the fact that advances are happening incredibly quickly in treatments for cf.
Sending much love and hugs xx

MissLLM · 04/01/2020 23:27

Adding to that last post.. the bugs are the worst and can mutate and grow into new bugs so stay away from anyone with any kind of flu or cold or even cf. But there are also stomach issues which suck and then the diabetes. Just be vigilant and prepared and I am convinced that the medical advances will provide for your DC in the future as they are progressing very fast. X

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