I last posted back in September 2017. Post was titled Holiday Fallout. I was on holiday abroad in a s/c 2 bed apartment with my close friend and her two grown up daughters. There was a massive falling out between us over her birthday, which resulted in her and the kids leaving me alone each evening while they got ready and went out for dinner.
Fast forward to the week before Christmas 2019.
There has been no contact between ex friend, youngest daughter and myself. Her eldest daughter stays in touch with me via messenger though.
I was out with some friends, who are still friends with ex friend on FB, but haven't seen her in years. Anyway one of them shows me a picture of ex friend with past and present staff at place I worked, all out for dinner.
It really upset me at the time as I was a member of that group, and always enjoyed the get togethers.
Christmas came and went, and yesterday one of the group messaged me wishing me a happy new year. I mentioned that I was aware there had been a get together before Christmas, and asked who'd arranged it.
It had been arranged by ex friend, something she'd never done in all the years I knew her. I think she'd possibly arranged it on purpose cutting me from the group.
AIBU to feel upset that a) She is being a bitch. She often chose not to go to the get togethers using lies as her reasons for not going, now she's arranging them.
and b) That nobody from the group thought to mention it or invite me.
I realise the group have possibly been out before this without me knowing, but seeing the picture with ex friend right at the front smiling like a Cheshire cat has really upset me.