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Just me, or is it a bit weird for John McDonnell to refer to Rebecca L-B as "my Becky"?

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ItalianinLondon · 31/12/2019 18:00

It just seems a bit icky to me! At best, paternalistic. At worst, kind of posessive / weird / yuk.

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Sparklesocks · 31/12/2019 18:01

I took it as a genuine term of endearment personally.

Fluffycloudland77 · 31/12/2019 18:05

Does this mean he’s knobbed her?,

ItalianinLondon · 31/12/2019 19:24

Lol, I wasn't thinking that! It just seems a touch... possessive / sexist, perhaps? And doesn't do any good for her image of being a Corbyn / McDonnell pawn...

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BaolFan · 31/12/2019 19:32

I think it's supposed to sound endearing. However I also think it could end up being counter-productive. The membership who want a change from Corbyn may be reluctant to vote for someone who looks like they will be more of the same.

ElloBrian · 31/12/2019 19:35

If one of my senior male colleagues referred to me like that I would consider it deeply unprofessional. Is there some personal connection between them which means it is a term of affection rather than a reference to a fellow professional?

ItalianinLondon · 31/12/2019 19:47

@ElloBrian ditto. And my workplace is hardly deeply enlightened!

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