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How to reach out to friends at New Year?

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JDixon95 · 31/12/2019 13:50

Hi everyone,

I am just posting to ask for some advice about reaching out to friends at New Years Eve. I am impacted by a condition called Aspergers Syndrome that impacts my social functioning. That said, I very much do my best to overcome this and have quite a lot of friends who always say nice things to me when I speak to them - albeit, sadly, none of which I feel close enough to ask to be with them on NYE. It is a bit more difficult for me this year as my Grandad, who I was very close to, passed away from a stroke in July. I have spent the last 10 New Years Eve nights going out with my Grandad, so this year feels really difficult without him.

Could I please ask for advice on either reaching out to and asking some of my friends to join their celebrations or suggestions of anything I can do on NYE. I live quite near London. I am looking at seriously paying £329 for a River Cruise tonight just so I can be with people.

Thanks so much for any advice, I sincerely appreciate it.

tl;dr - How do I reach out to friends at New Year?

OP posts:
7Swans · 31/12/2019 17:52

Did you have any success OP?

Newschapter · 31/12/2019 18:50

Hope you're getting ready for out OP!!

Wynston · 31/12/2019 19:05

Wondering if you manage to arrange anything op??

Corna · 31/12/2019 21:45

Hope you are doing something enjoyable tonight op, whether that's on your own or with friends. Well done and keep reaching out, have you thought volunteering? It's often a good way to meet new people. Best of luck.

7Swans · 01/01/2020 03:01

I hope you either got out or had a good night in. Even if you didn't get out, at least you are on people's radar for next year.

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