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shas19 · 30/12/2019 15:28

In 2013 I was seeing a man that lived across the road. I was 17 at the time and him 22. One night he came over to my house with a few friends and ended up hanging sex with me whilst I was passed out unconscious. Mum returned home the next day and called the police, they came took a statement but I was so infatuated with this man I couldn't believe that he could of raped me and it was my fault for getting too drunk. Fast forward to 2014 I had my son. He was adamant he was his (hes not) harassed me my whole pregnancy. He moved and that was that or so I thought. 2018 I gave birth to my daughter and then the texts and endless phone calls started, up to 72 calls a day. Telling me my baby should have been born dead, my partner is cheating on me, hes going to slap me when he sees me then the cherry on top was the comment that he put something in my drink that night to loosen me and it's not rape if I wasnt fighting him off. This morning I saw him and he pulled up on the kirb asking me why I cant say hello? Then tried to speak to my son. I obviously told him to fuck off! Hes threatened to send people to my house to harm my partner, and I have all the screenshots of everything! Is it worth popping into the station and putting a report in? I genuinely cant take it anymore! I just want him out of my life for good!

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user1473878824 · 30/12/2019 15:30

Of course report it!!!

dementedpixie · 30/12/2019 15:30

Of course you should report it. He's harassing you

iklboo · 30/12/2019 15:30

Definitely contact police.

TheMustressMhor · 30/12/2019 15:30

It is definitely worth putting a report in regarding stalking. Make sure you save all his textx as evidence.

shas19 · 30/12/2019 15:33

I know I should of done it earlier but I've been sweeping it under the carpet but today is the day! I cant take no more. I'm also worried what will happen I'd my partner sees him as hea gone past boiling point now!!

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Travis1 · 30/12/2019 15:34

Yes report it. He sounds like an utter cretin

shas19 · 30/12/2019 15:36

Hes absolutely vile! And a complete narcissist! In his head hes done nothing wrong and I'm crazy??

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Elizabear · 30/12/2019 15:37

Yes today is your day, please do it x

shas19 · 30/12/2019 15:39

I'm just waiting for my fiancee to get in then I'm going to go. I'm a nervous wreck!

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ALLMYSmellySocks · 30/12/2019 15:44

Yes if course you must report it. The police will warn him off, if it doesn't work you'll have started a paper trail which would help if it goes to court. What an awful man.

GiveHerHellFromUs · 30/12/2019 15:52

You're doing the right thing for everyone involved

spingly · 30/12/2019 15:53

Jesus he's fucking vile, report and get some victim counselling you must've been living a dreadful life. Thanks

LadyTiredWinterBottom2 · 30/12/2019 15:54

Bless you. I can understand hoping it will just go away. But it won't. Flowers

shas19 · 30/12/2019 15:57

He just wont go away! When I was younger I was besotted with him but now I'm older and have my own kids I realise I cant just keep hoping it will disappear because clearly he wont!

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