My DP was hospitalised this weekend with his long term health condition (IBD) had reached crisis.
He also confided in my that he was having dark suicidal thoughts, and panic attacks.
I immediately got him an out of hours appointment, and insisted he needed hospital treatment, which the ooh GP agreed.
So off we trot to the hospital Saturday midday.
My mum had our DS(1) for the day.
It got to 5.15 pm and we were told he would be staying in, so I ENCOURAGED DP to call his (somewhat difficult) mother just to let her know, as much as she's very dramatic, we would want to know if it was DS.
He calls her, she says she is on her way, an hour later she still hasn't arrived, so we call to make sure shes OK, she sounds drunk on the phone, DP says not to worry, don't drink and drive.
Then I text his brother to ask for the number where mil is, to make sure she doesn't drive over drunk!
Bil decides he wants to come to the hospital too that night.
I had to leave at 8pm to get back to our DS.
Mil and bil turn up to the hospital at 10pm,both drunk and causing a right scene.
I'm disgusted at their behaviour to be honest.
Oh and on top of all this, bil had been messaging me pretty much blaming me for DP condition, as I've been feeding him chocolate, biscuits, coke and pigs in blankets.
AIBU to be furious with his family...?
Im so so cross they've stressed him out even more so, when he should be resting in hospital (not thinking about other patients too!).
From the moment DP knew his mum was drunk he was worrying, she could have killed herself or someone else... She was that drunk she didn't remember where she had parked the car!!
I wish I had gone back to the hospital when I got DS to sleep (left him with my mum) and told them to get out, and call security on them.