Been seeing someone for a couple of months. Didn’t see him over Christmas because we were with respective families. We sent a few texts Christmas morning, haven’t spoken again until today.
I don’t expect contact everyday because it’s still really new so haven’t been worried about not talking for a couple of days.
When we spoke today he said his Nan had been in a car crash Christmas Day. I can imagine it must have been awful for her and him, asked how she was, how he had been, if I could do anything etc.
My AIBU is that he never asked me how I was, am I wrong for thinking he doesn’t really care about me? I understand he’s had other things on his mind and the people he’s worrying about now have been in his life a lot longer than I have. However this is the first Christmas since my grandad died a few months ago. I lost my dad a few years ago and have found Christmas hard ever since. He knows this because we’ve spoken about it before. Am I being selfish feeling upset that he hasn’t asked me how I’ve been when he’s being going through a hard time himself?
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AIBU?
He doesn’t care or I’m expecting too much?
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IntoTheWilderness · 28/12/2019 19:38
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