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AIBU?

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to dislike being referred to as a "Mamma"

42 replies

St0pTryingT0MakeFetchHappen · 27/12/2019 18:49

Anyone who wants to sell something "Mum" related or mum groups on the internet (breastfeeding groups etc). All this "You go girl, super/Hot/boobing/insert adjective here Mamma (or Mumma)."

Just makes me a bit boak in my mouth. Anyone else? Or am I just a grumpy geriatric second time parent?

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Expressedways · 27/12/2019 18:53

My hairdresser does this. It’s even worse in person than it is online. I’ve even thought about finding a new hairdresser but she’s really, really good. YANBU.

Bezalelle · 27/12/2019 18:57

"Mumma" is awful. If anyone calls me that I will swing for them.

nachthexe · 27/12/2019 18:59

Boak in your mouth is equally twee and irritating. I assume you were using it ironically.

St0pTryingT0MakeFetchHappen · 27/12/2019 19:01

@nachthexe oh my first jellyfish on Mumsnet! I'll treasure it. I happen to think it's pleasingly onomatopoeic (?sp.), however, jf you'd prefer, it gives me retrograde peristalsis into my oral cavity.

Now where is the biscuit emoji?

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CloudyVanilla · 27/12/2019 19:06

I love when my little ones call me mama Halo

If anyone refers to general mamas though I guess I find it a little cringe.

TulipCat · 27/12/2019 19:11

I can't stand it. I would never buy anything that was advertised like that.

St0pTryingT0MakeFetchHappen · 27/12/2019 19:15

@Expressedways - that sounds like hell. She must be an amazing hairdresser

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TerraMirabilis · 27/12/2019 19:16

I live in the epicenter of twee Mama-ing in the US. I think they've worn me down to where I just accept it now. My spirit is broken.

PooWillyBumBum · 27/12/2019 19:17

YANBU. My 11 year old calls me mama still but - apart from that - anyone else makes me a bit sick in my mouth.

Recently did some pregnancy “Mamilates” classes with the Sweaty Mama franchise and could never bring myself to call it that. So irritating.

Also boobing. Ici.

PooWillyBumBum · 27/12/2019 19:18

Ick not ici. Somehow slipped onto French keyboard.

littlepaddypaws · 27/12/2019 19:21

i hate mummy and daddy said by anyone over the age of 6. mama is okay but not 'mama bear [any other animal] mode'. you are NOT an animal !

Clackyheels · 27/12/2019 19:22

My daughters call me mama, I love it.

I could find other things to be annoyed about yo be honest.

nachthexe · 27/12/2019 19:23

Meh. It’s exactly the same. It’s mildly amusing that you find the one terribly non-U but are happy to signal your determinedly-U membership of mn. Grin

You do you, though, hun.

recklessruby · 27/12/2019 19:24

Lol yanbu. Thank God I had my kids so long ago that nobody had thought of this crap.
I was Mummy then Mum.
I m still Mum today Xmas Smile

Saxineno · 27/12/2019 19:26

My 6 year old has recently started calling my mumma / mama. I do not like it, but he won't call me mum. No idea where he's got it from!

Camomila · 27/12/2019 19:27

I like mamma but I'm Italian and that's our word for mum!
I'm usually mummy or mamma to DS although lately he's started saying 'hi mum' or 'thanks mum'...I was hoping I'd stay mummy for longer (he's nearly 4)

UnnecessarilyUpset · 27/12/2019 19:28

Oh well.

MontanaSkies · 27/12/2019 19:29

OP how do you feel about people on Facebook who put "Full Time Mama Bear" as their profession? I have actually seen this.

Sexnotgender · 27/12/2019 19:32

Meh, my 10 month old says mama, it’s adorable, can’t get worked up about it.

bruffin · 27/12/2019 19:32

DC called me Mama , I was sad when I became Mum.

Natsku · 27/12/2019 19:36

I do not like it. DD insists on calling me mama and I really don't like it. Anyone else calling me mama would be much much worse.

user1483387154 · 27/12/2019 19:39

My son calls me Mama because that is the normal word in our country.

St0pTryingT0MakeFetchHappen · 27/12/2019 19:42

@Montanaskies I think referring to oneself as Mama/Mamma/Mumma or your own children calling you that is a personal/family choice. I think it's more the commercialising of the term. I'm on Mat leave atm, and everything is "Mamma/Mamma" e.g. yoga/exercise classes. And then other people that I don't know well use it at me!

I think I'd prefer "Parent and (what ever thing/activity)". But there you are, that's why I AIBUed!

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Delbelleber · 27/12/2019 19:44

I thought it was cute when dd called me mamma in her earlier years. But any adult online like you are saying, yes that is a bit irritating!

St0pTryingT0MakeFetchHappen · 27/12/2019 19:46

@nachtheexe

I am many things, but Upper Class is not one of them. I'd own more different cutlery. Not sure being on Mumsnet is particularly indicative of being any class.

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