To think this could work

[samb80]

Met a man, we have both recently come out of long term relationships (marriage / children etc). AIBU to think we could work out?
It's only been a few weeks (having sex) but I don't want to waste my time. I know we like each other and we both have a good understanding of what the other is going through. I know it's going to be a slow burner - but I was just wondering if anyone else has been through this and what the out come was?

Personally I think after coming out of a proper relationship you should take some time and have fun.

Why do you see what you're doing as a waste of time?

Why the rush to commit and not just enjoy getting to know each other?

There's no rush - I just wanted to see if anyone else has had the same experience.
I think I'm just being extremely cautious and it's not that I don't want to waste my time I suppose I just don't want to get hurt.