I should start by saying DH and I are going through a rough patch and so I'm probably super sensitive. I got DH one present but it is something he wanted. I looked around a while for it and paid for it out of my current acciunt. DH went out shopping yesterday evening for my presents. He got gloves, which are lovely. I used to read a magazine years ago and last year he got me a six month subscription. I thanked him but during the year he noticed I hadn't read some. I told him it was a lovely idea but I don't read that mag anymore and haven't really in ten years, thanks though for the thought. This year he got me a year subscription of the same magazine. I had also asked for a makeup mirror and he got me a jewellery box despite the fact I have no jewellery. He also put everything on our joint cc rather than from his own account. I pay off the joint cc from my wage. Because I essentially half pay for these, I told him to return the jewellery box and cancel the subscription for the mag. I wasn't kind about it either but said quietly that I wasnt interested in paying for a magazine that I don't read or for a jewellery box when I have no jewellery. Thank you for the gloves but in future use your current account for presents and put some thought into it. Thats what I do and I expect the same in return. Aibu? He thinks I am ungrateful. There are ungoing issues with DH not listening to me at all.