AIBU or is SIL!?
Emmy5159 · 24/12/2019 23:13
Long story short...
DD has been unwell for a period of time in and out of hospital picking up every thing constantly on antibiotics.
Found the problem FINALLY!! But this week she has been poorly again and turns out she has hand foot and mouth.
DS had it last year and gave it to DN. SIL has had a new baby 3 months old, baby was poorly and had a stint in hospital last week with bronchiolitis baby is all good now thankfully!
SIL was annoyed today that grandparents were coming around to see DC as they won't be seeing them on Christmas as I don't want SIL DC to become unwell.
SIL said that the baby will still catch HFMD because the adults will be with my DD.
Was really pissy. Which pissed me off.
2020BetterBeBetter · 24/12/2019 23:22
Some adults do catch HFM and it is very contagious. If your SIL has had a very poorly newborn, then I think it’s understandable she is so cautious. I also think it’s very understandable that you are staying away because your DD is contagious. Neither of you are BU.
Emmy5159 · 24/12/2019 23:42
She was taking it out on me.
I definitely did not ask PIL to visit I said we would stay to ourselves until DD was better.
I completely understand she doesn't want baby to be poorly again although she has taken her out all winter with no hat and decided to go out to winter wonderland this evening with baby only recently being out of hospital.
So swings and roundabouts I guess?
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