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AIBU in being relieved I am 53 ...Santa is broody.

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DuckWillow · 23/12/2019 19:01

Light hearted thread Grin

Every year my husband is Father Christmas for a National Trist property.

Despite most of the year moaning about other people’s kids he absolutely bloody LOVES being Santa. He’s always full of what the children say, what they ask for (LOL Dolls are big among girls this year and among the boys there’s a lot of Lego requests).

He adores it all.

Now when DS was born DH was anxious that he was ..in his words “going to be a really crap father.” He was never broody and would I suspect have been quite happy if we’d had no children. I struggled to conceive and DS was a bit of a miracle. I can assure you he quickly got to grips with it all and DS has survived to the age of 17 and they have a great relationship.

So DH phones today to tell me that for the first time in his life he understood what it was like to feel broody (what is he...a woman) all because he’s been seeing excited 2+ yr olds all day. ...he’s had letters with stickers all over them, the children brought in mince pies, chocolate and homemade cards too. He gets this every year but I suspect DS being 17 has brought home how magical having young children is at a Xmas.

And thank goodness I am 53 and can’t have children any more. Broody old sod. Grin

OP posts:
NoHummus · 23/12/2019 19:03

Aw, he sounds lovely! Xmas Smile

MillieMoodle · 23/12/2019 19:04

Aww that's lovely! Merry Christmas OP and OP's DH and DS!

slipperywhensparticus · 23/12/2019 19:05

😂😂broody santa

DuckWillow · 23/12/2019 19:06

Haha...yes he is lovely. I just think that this year it’s hit him that DS isn’t so bothered anymore about Xmas and seeing all the excited children has brought it home.

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MinisterforCheekyFuckery · 23/12/2019 19:09

What a sweet man your DH is but no, YANBU to feel relieved! Xmas Grin
Thank you, OP. I've had some bad news today and not been feeling very 'Christmassy' but this thread has given me a warm fuzzy feeling.

LloydColeandtheCoconuts · 23/12/2019 19:12

He does sound lovely! Maybe you and Santa could have another Christmas miracle? Xmas Wink

Ullupullu · 23/12/2019 19:19

That's nice. Maybe your son will have kids in the next decade and your DH will make a lovely Grandad

Minxmumma · 23/12/2019 19:30

Awww what a sweetie. But no YADNBU. You are right though Christmas with tiddlers is much more fun.

DisplayPurposesOnly · 23/12/2019 19:32

Remind him that toddlers are for life, not just for Christmas Wink

Craftycorvid · 23/12/2019 19:32

Ah, what a nice thread! Proper cheered me up. Thanks, OP! Xmas Smile

SyntheticPumpkin · 23/12/2019 19:32

Still time, OP, still time...

en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pregnancy_over_age_50

Roselilly36 · 23/12/2019 19:35

Aww that’s really sweet

DuckWillow · 23/12/2019 19:37

No no...there is NOT still time hahahahaha...not starting all that again.

Santa will soon get over his broodiness. ...my niece just had a baby...he can cuddle him.

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ilikemethewayiam · 23/12/2019 19:39

I agree with Ullu, he will make a lovely Grandad. Hopefully he will be one day. And he’s right, 2+ year olds excited about Xmas are adorable! I miss that now my DS is all grown up. Your DH sounds lovely.

Chocolateandchats · 23/12/2019 19:40

I love your reaction as much as your husbands broodiness. 😂

MitziK · 23/12/2019 19:44

Oh, he's going to love being a grandfather when/if it happens.

BlackeyedSusan · 23/12/2019 19:45

Fuck off, now I'm broody. Crown Grin

Won't last long, as soon as the next autistic meltdown hits... ( Hopefully not literally)

I make autistic hypermobile kids. Not a great idea to have another.

BlackeyedSusan · 23/12/2019 19:47

I may be closer to having grandchildren then having my own. We are more than half way to getting both to adulthood.

ParkheadParadise · 23/12/2019 19:52

Aw that's lovely.
Something similar happened to us @DuckWillow
DH was smitten with my nieces new baby. Another baby was definitely not on the cards. Dd1 was 23!
2months later I found out I was 5mths pregnant with dd2. To say he was shocked was a understatement.
Dd2 is 4 now and DH can't wait for Santa😂😂

user1498572889 · 23/12/2019 20:04

You get a few years of feeling like that then if you are lucky you get grand children and it’s exciting and exhausting all over again. 😀

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