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To think my "friend" hates me?

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ohxmastree · 23/12/2019 12:43

I've started dating (casually ) a guy (3 months )
I know he sees other people and I've told him I'm jealous.
Now my "friend" always seems to have it in for me.
She knows this guy I'm dating and has fancied him in the past.
Saturday night we all went out.
I was tipsy.
She said to me...he is playing you like a fiddle,he was out with a girl last night,go over there and have it out with him.
I was tipsy and stupidly bit and went over to him.
I said "did you enjoy your date last night "
My "friend" barges over and goes ...
"I'm so sorry,what are you playing at,he is a single guy and can do what he likes,your behaving crazy,I warned you "Chris" she was a psycho"

So I'm stood open mouthed ..and I say to her
"What are you doing,you have just told me to come over here"
She reply's
"No I never your crazy"
Yesterday I had to go to her house to collect my things (as I was meant to sleep over) she immediately screams and shouts at me to get out of her house.
Then rings him and says I walked in screaming and shouting..
I didn't say a word
She hates me doesn't she?

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teablanket · 23/12/2019 12:45

Hatred or not, she's definitely not a friend.

WorraLiberty · 23/12/2019 12:48

She's batshit

But then again so are you by the sound of it. Dump the guy if you're not happy with him seeing other people.

Karwomannghia · 23/12/2019 12:49

She’s not the one who showed your boyfriend your diary and texts about him is she? Sounds like there’s a lot of crazy friends around!

ohxmastree · 23/12/2019 12:49

No I don't have a diary but that's a bit crazy too.

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biggles50 · 23/12/2019 12:50

Run for the hills, have no contact with her, delete her from your contact list and your life. Your boyfriend sounds horrible too, friends look out for you, stand up for you, make you feel good about yourself. Engage with decent people.

HowlsMovingBungalow · 23/12/2019 12:50

How old is she, 15?

Karwomannghia · 23/12/2019 12:52

She’s made herself look ridiculous rather than you anyway as you wouldn’t have known about the night before unless she’d told you, so it’s obvious she’s meddling.

ohxmastree · 23/12/2019 12:56

She is 34.
Yes that's true but now she's backtracking saying I asked her and she couldn't lie.
I've blocked her on everything possible.
If he wants to be her friend then that's his choice but I want nothing to do with her.

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Emeraldshamrock · 23/12/2019 13:02

She is a cunt, so is he.
Dump him he is more than likely playing you, it is not a fairytale to find a faithful man from the start.
You need better people in your life, dump both of them. Smile

Emeraldshamrock · 23/12/2019 13:04

If he wants to be her friend then that's his choice but I want nothing to do with her
Be brave change it to them. He may even decide he wants to commit, if not it is no loss.

slipperywhensparticus · 23/12/2019 13:18

Sounds like she fancys him and is staking her claim by being the sane one and making you out as crazy

Beautiful3 · 23/12/2019 13:31

Wow shes crazy! Stay away from her. Shes trouble so keep away.

ohxmastree · 23/12/2019 13:32

You know the scary thing...she actually believes her lies.

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ohxmastree · 23/12/2019 15:07

Oh I forgot to add this is a friend of 15 years too.

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