So this is my first post. I’m looking for some advice as to wether I have over reacted or have a right to be scared and stand my ground!
Long story here goes ...
I am happily married with two children.
Just shy of a year ago I was on a night out with family when I got chatting to a man (no sexual or intentions) just genuine conversation, he was sad and told me his terrible life story. I was empathetic. Listened and advised and in turn opened up myself, it was really nice to have a genuine friendly chat with someone! Anyway last night I went on a night out, the guy in question was out approached and said hi, greetings we’re exchanged. And that was the end of it or so I thought. He then began talking to my sister. Telling her I was leaving my husband for him, he thinks about me when he wakes up, he knows where I worked and knows where my husband works, proceeded to tell my sister my husband is a c* and other things were said about him. Also he went as far to tell her he knows more about me than even she does! Now I don’t know this man other than a chat on a night out 11 month ago, haven’t seen him since or spoken to him until last night! I felt so vulnerable and scared I went home and cut my night short, I got home and cried to my husband and understandably he’s angry, even more so now we’ve found out who he is (I didn’t even know his name) and found he’s been working on and off with my husband!
Am I being silly to be scared? Am I over reacting!?