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To be tired of the question, "Are you all ready for Christmas?"

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B0bbin · 21/12/2019 16:22

I even got asked a few days into October, "are you all ready for Halloween?" this year. It's nice that people make small talk and I know it's just friendly, but it just winds me up. Anyone else? Are there any other over- used phrases that you just can't stand? Smile

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Laiste · 21/12/2019 16:31

But are you all ready? For xmas OP?

Wink
birdsarecute45 · 21/12/2019 16:37

I get it. But people really aree just making small talk.

I am not a fan of 'are you home for christmas' either. No special reason, other than it reminds me I would love to do Christmas somewhere else... on a cruise for example... but DH is having none of it! he says christmas at home is the best, but for me it just means another day doing same old same old!

B0bbin · 21/12/2019 16:38

Haha! Nice.
Yes, except cheese and veg which I buy last minute. You? Wink

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B0bbin · 21/12/2019 16:39

birds- I would also love to go away for Christmas but DH is set in his ways.

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Laiste · 21/12/2019 16:39

It is just small talk. Are you excited/looking forward to xmas is always a bit odd i think. Adult to adult.

You always feel such a killjoy hmm'ing about it rather than saying YES I AM!

Honeybee85 · 21/12/2019 16:41

Gosh, yes.
My mum asked me last week and I was Hmm.

I put up a Christmas tree, sent Christmas cards and went on a diet so I can stuff my face with Christmas donuts without guilt.

What else can I do?

BeyondMyWits · 21/12/2019 16:43

"you ready for the big day" -

"yep, sure am",

"nope, not yet"

I work on a counter in a pharmacy, at least it is a change from "wet innit"

Craftycorvid · 21/12/2019 16:43

Yes, though telling them I don’t ‘do’ Christmas usually shuts ‘em up. If I’m in a bad mood I leave it at that, if I’m feeling kind I tell them I’m Pagan and wish them a pleasant Yule.

Evilmorty · 21/12/2019 16:55

People generally regret asking me this. I go in to panic mode and start listing all the things I haven’t done yet while I feel myself getting redder and redder and even more frantic.

“No, I’m not ready, why would I be ready??? I’ve got x to do and y to clean and z to wrap! Don’t get me started on mikes present! Amazon delivered to the BIN and her at no25 asked if I wanted drinks?! I don’t want drinks I don’t have time? In fact why am I even out right now! I have to go...”

Runs off with steam coming out of ears and leaving evilmorty shaped hole in door

hazell42 · 21/12/2019 17:11

It's an ice-breaker
Questions about the weather
Last night's telly
The state of the economy
Whatever
They don't really care if you have bought and wrapped your presents
Say yes/no as appropriate and move to a more appealing subject

YahooGmail · 21/12/2019 17:20

Lol... we had this for the whole last week in work Grin. Every time you'd bump into someone in the kitchen/lift/at photocopier. The whole night out last night at our work do, literally on rotation like some kind of christmas small talk conveyor belt, with each person/group you mingled with. I'm guilty of it too. At one stage 2 of us said it to eachother at the same time Grin. It's just small talk and a conversation starter and in fairness it mostly does lead on to other topics

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