The past 2 weeks myself and a colleague half my age where to go for lunch but the day before she has cancelled. I treat her like one off my daughters so we get on very well know everything about each other.
Last week she said I like your jumper and I just replied I had it set out ready for our lunch but was let down she roared at me in front off 2 other colleagues right then we wont go for lunch next week either.
I said fair enough and went back to my own office.
Monday came and she came into me your very quite today. I said I'm just busy.
She said are we going for lunch Friday
I replied thought you didn't want to she replied j was just joking.
This girl knows I am very sensitive and do not like plans changing
I really do not want to go for lunch Friday but don't want a bad atmosphere at work.
How can I say no nicely when I am so annoyed.
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mcmen05 · 17/12/2019 22:51
OP posts:
Am I being unreasonable?
49 votes. Final results.
POLL
You are being unreasonable
86%
You are NOT being unreasonable
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