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To be upset with my husband over this

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twinkleton · 14/12/2019 13:47

I'm feeling very upset with my husband at the moment. We were away with our kids and our wedding anniversary fell during the break. On the day I still acknowledged it with a card and he told me he didn't get me one but has it at home for me. Bearing in mind I did most of the packing and organising for the holiday as well as getting stuff sorted for Christmas I still managed to get him a card but I didn't let it bother me.
We've been home since yesterday and no card or anything yet he's been to the shops too.
He then rings me this morning to tell me he'd be home in 20 minutes (he brings his mum shopping) can I stick on breakfast. I leave it 10 minutes as his 20 minutes really mean 30 minutes and then put it on and he doesn't arrive home for another hour as he couldn't leave he's 10 minutes away. Breakfast ruined and he doesn't understand why I'm upset with him. Aibu to be annoyed with him. He got really defensive with me and told me I was making a big deal out of him being late. I even had a card in the post from my parents and I don't expect that at all.

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PriscillaTheHun · 14/12/2019 13:57

So was he lying when he said your card was at home?

That's not good, OP and that with the lateness looks like he's taking you for granted.

The best way to tackle this is later on - tell him calmly you don't feel valued.

NewIdeasToday · 14/12/2019 13:58

These are two unconnected things. I don’t really see what the big issue is. Presumably you ate the breakfast so it’s just his that was spoilt?

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