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AIB..too Reasonable?

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Pepperpot69 · 11/12/2019 15:55

We run a self catering business, in June a couple came to stay, they have some family problems and extolled to me how much the break had meant to them and how they wished to re-book in August (peak season) for a whole week. I gave him a price and he paid a £100 deposit so booking was confirmed and I trusted him. 10 days prior to the booking he said he couldnt afford to pay the balance and would need to cancel. I offered him a few more days to pay but he didnt. At this point it was too late to re-book the week and I would have lost the whole week, less the £100.
I offered that as he and his wife were struggling and they seemed very nice that they could come and stay anyway and pay me in instalments, I would have lost the week so I felt it was better than nothing and I felt it was the decent thing to do as he was struggling.
He was very grateful and he left a credit card with me for me to take money off to clear the balance, of course it has never worked.
I have managed to eek out £200 from him since August in £50 instalments. He now says he is not going to be able to buy his kids anything for xmas if I keep asking him for instalments or even the balance - £450.
What would you do? Park it up until January? Or keep insisting he pays what he can? I don’t want to think of anyone being miserable over xmas but on the other hand he could be taking me for a complete mug (which clearly I am!)
I have learnt my lesson and will not do it again!

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churchandstate · 11/12/2019 16:08

I think you should stop trying to chase him for the money and take it to small claims court. It was a bit daft if you to agree an instalment plan for a service you had already offered, but all you can do now is send him an invoice and, when it isn’t paid, take it to court.

Viviene · 11/12/2019 16:19

I think it was daft of you to ask them to come and stay when you knew they couldn't afford it. I would stop chasing and take it to the small claims court.

Mumdiva99 · 11/12/2019 16:23

Chalk it up to experience. Then amend your terms so full balance is paid much further ahead of bookings. If a client can't afford it you can resell the week.

custardbear · 11/12/2019 16:26

Yes as others say, full payment before x date (I'd be saying 6 weeks at least in advance) and I'd tell the man that you'll leave it for December but expect him to fulfill his responsibilities from January - some people have no financial morals though so look after yourself in future not them

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