AIBU to ask if you talk to your ex about your life?

[mincepiesandtea1]

How is your relationship with your ex? And if you have a good/ok relationship, do you talk to him about your life or what's happening in your life, or don't you tell him anything?

No. I wouldn't share details of even things as banal as what I had for lunch with my ex. He's an arsehole. I communicate only as necessary and only about DS.

i'm in contact with someone I was engaged to but split up around 20 years ago.

bit weird but he messaged me via Facebook a couple of years ago & we drop each other messages every now & then with a catch up on our lives

Being mates with an ex can also help quickly weed out the hard work potential partners.
Years ago I met this guy and we started seeing each other. Christmas was fast approaching and we were discussing separate plans. He wanted to invite himself because an ex was going to be there. Don't know what he was expecting to happen considering not only wasn't we alone, exes fiance was going to be there.
He was most put out when I chose friend instead of him.

I'm married and got no interest in any of my exes' lives. So I don't speak to any of them.