Scene witnessed at playgroup: mum pours coffee, adds milk, stirs it, asks for sugar. Someone passes the sugar, saying 'there's spoons just here', to which mum replies 'I've got one thanks' (meaning the one already in her cup). Proceeds to put wet spoon in communal sugar tub 
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Mumsnetters - do I continue building a friendship with this poor unstable woman? 
YABU - obviously everyone puts a wet spoon in sugar, you dry spoon obsessed freak
YANBU - aaarrghghgh run!