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Cleaner: Christmas gift?

16 replies

outherealone · 10/12/2019 00:15

I’d like to acknowledge my Cleaner's amazing work. I have disabilities, two kids and a part time job. I can’t really afford her but I use my dla to pay for it and she goes above and beyond all the time. I’ve. Had several over the years but she’s so thoughtful and intuitive, she’s given me and the kids a new lease of life. Honestly, she’s transformed the quality of our lives, especially our weekends!
I don’t have loads of money and don’t want to insult her but I really want to get her something.
Any ideas? Thank you

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BackforGood · 10/12/2019 00:28

Depends how well you know her, and also how much you want to spend

I always thing hand cream would be nice for someone who spends a lot of time cleaning, but, like most things, some people love it, others are a bit 'meh' and others might have a skin condition that means they can't use it.

Personally I give my cleaner cash so she can get herself what she prefers, rather than me trying to guess. I give her a week's money.

BodenGate · 10/12/2019 00:34

I give my cleaner double in cash on her last clean before Christmas so she can buy what she wants with it.

KathySelden · 10/12/2019 00:36

I usually buy a nice box of crocs or a bottle of wine. It really depends what you can afford but it’s the thought that counts.

Keepthebloodynoisedown · 10/12/2019 00:44

I’m in a very similar situation, have a cleaner as I’m too ill to do it myself, but not much money. And she doesn’t drink so alcohol is out. I’m going with chocs, a £10 tip and a Christmas card with a message about how great she is.

pallisers · 10/12/2019 00:49

I just give money - and I write a nice card saying how much I appreciate her.

NarNooNarNoo · 10/12/2019 03:02

I give a double cash and a festive chocolate box like Roses

JustACog · 10/12/2019 03:11

Bunch of flowers, box of chocolates and a card.

Anything grander might be a bit awkward.

graziemille567 · 10/12/2019 04:02

I used to be a cleaner - some of the ppl we cleaned for would leave chocolates / wine / spirits / toiletry gift sets. Occasionally some would give cash, but any sign of appreciation was always nice to receive, regardless of how much it cost.

outherealone · 10/12/2019 15:06

Thank you so much for replies, all pretty standard and straightforward = perfect!

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Delbelleber · 10/12/2019 15:21

A scented candle

Londonmummy66 · 10/12/2019 16:59

Mine gets a cash bonus paid direct into her bank account and then nice chocolates so I have handed something over. M&S usually have nice looking chocolates - last time I was in there I saw some really pretty chocolate pine cones filled with salted caramel for about £10 - I guess its the sort of thing she wouldn't buy for herself?

justdoityourself · 10/12/2019 17:19

I think the gift is secondary here, what's most important is a nice card. Tell her exactly what you told us, I'm sure she will appreciate it.

TheoneandObi · 10/12/2019 17:23

I give mine a bottle of nice booze, some wuality smellies and a nice box of chocs. Total value about £50. Plus a thank you card. My business wouldn’t function without her so I hope this is sufficient to communicate my appreciation.

Pipandmum · 10/12/2019 17:31

Pretty standard to give double cash in a card. I know mine will be spending it on her daughter but I hope she buys something for herself!

outherealone · 11/12/2019 09:50

Ah thank you. Think I’ll do some bonus cash and write the card with the message about how much she’s doing for us and a small box of chocs. Really appreciate all the feedback 😊

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FLOrenze · 11/12/2019 09:52

Definitely include a thank you note. Written words always mean so much.

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