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AIBU to ask how on earth you keep in touch with colleagues?!

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whatatangleofcables · 09/12/2019 15:54

In June this year I started in a PR role after spending most of my 20s in marketing. It’s definitely been a learning curve but I’m enjoying the connecting with other companies directly…it’s much more human scale.

The part I can’t easily get my head around is all the networking. My department is small only 4 people and at least once a week or more usually each will announce they are having a “get-to-know-you” lunch or “networking drinks”. These consist of meeting people from other companies who do similar jobs. I know it’s not clients because I know the client roster.

How do they do it? How do they organise it? What do you say on the lunch? I feel like it can’t be about the job because surely all PR jobs are kinda the same. It just all seems complicated. Confused

Of course I’ve met colleagues outside the office if there’s a specific reason. But just a get-to-know-you chat? I mean, surely people are busy!

Please help me with this. I tried asking but got vague answers like “oh I met her at a party once”

(And yes shamelessly posting for traffic…sorry Blush

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Mistletoadsandwhine · 09/12/2019 16:08

Can you ask to go to one of these lunches with a colleague?
It might be easier to actually see what they do.

CSIblonde · 09/12/2019 16:11

I hate parties, but I built up a network by meeting other staff of clients, so not the actual 'client', but people I'd talk to there re the work, via email & telephone & in person. I push myself to be extrovert & social at work because it oil's the wheels & God you need a support network in London. I got chatting at the copier to a PA in an unrelated dept where I work & thru her met other managers in her dept she was pally with & then other managers at other companies thru a pal in my dept as he'd been given a shit task & I'd offered to help arrange some meetings for him so got to know people his side of the business. It's easy to get pally quickly in my job because you talk at least daily as things are so fast moving.

whatatangleofcables · 09/12/2019 16:45

@Mistletoadsandwhine I was invited in the 1st few weeks. It was like two old friends, just gossip.

@CSIblonde you're so right and i do this in my own office. it's the leap to askiing someone in another office i don't understand

Thinking about it, maybe my Q is about how you meet people outside your own office. I kinda feel I need a reason to meet IYSWIM. Maybe overthinking?

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whatatangleofcables · 09/12/2019 20:28

Little bump...

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CSIblonde · 09/12/2019 21:51

To answer the question re people elsewhere OP, to the people in other businesses I spoke to daily & clicked with, I just did the 'we should have a drink one day & swap gossip & ideas' .... Only after lots of contact, mutual work favours & shared jokes etc tho as I'm not a natural extrovert & didn't want to misread signs or look desperate. No-one said no or made any excuses.

whatatangleofcables · 10/12/2019 10:32

I feel exactly the same @CSIblonde! I wish I knew the answer.

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