I see it a lot on here where OP says ‘ In-laws said this about me and DH told me.. “ or “ so and so said this, and friend told me” then most MNers say “ Well why would your friend /DH tell you that? Sounds like shitstirring. I don’t understand this mentality, wouldn’t you want to know if someone talked behind your back and told your friend or DH? Or in-laws saying something about you to DH. Would you rather want your DH keep it from you? I wouldn’t like that at all, and would want to know if someone said something behind my back. Especially in-laws/friends.
AIBU to want to know why is this called shitstirring?
2020isnearlyhere · 07/12/2019 22:04
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