Bf supposed to be coming over tonight. Text him when I get home from work to see where he was and he replies he has called in on his mate because she has had a bad day and she asked him to drop her a bottle of wine off.
I say OK are you staying there then and I will see you tomorrow.
He says no, I don't want to stay out I'm on call so not having a drink. Plus I am working tomorrow.
Me (knowing already how it will go) well sounds like she needs a friend if she is going to be drinking on her own.
No babe I don't want to stay out.
So shall I make your dinner then?
No I'm not hungry I had a big lunch.
OK then see you later.
No sign of him after an hour so I text again.
Are you coming round?
Him I'm still here she's having a bad day.
Me - do you want to stay at yours then, I don't want you to come here if you've been drinking.
Him - I've only had one, I'm working tomorrow.
But more conversation about Christmas presents which I respond to with, dint be going mad. Referring to buying presents.
I won't be going mad, I've got work tomorrow.
So I say, I was talking about the presents but I guess your not coming tonight then.
He says - I will just stay at mine and see you tomorrow like you suggested before.
So am I being Unreasonable to find it fucking annoying that he says several times that he is coming round when we both know he was never going to come. Which he proved an hour later by saying he wasn't coming. Why skirt around it. Why not just be straight with me in the first place and say he wants to have a drink. It drives me mad when we both know exactly what he is going to do.
So YABU = chill out, people change their minds. Stop being so uptight.
YANBU = that would piss me off too. Why not just be upfront.