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To start a lovely neighbour thread

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Gobelinoisawitchescat · 06/12/2019 18:44

It’s the season to be nice - so as an antidote to all the cheeky fucker neighbour threads - thought I’d start a nice neighbour thread instead.

I’ve just moved in around a month ago- neighbour popped by today to both bring me some Christmas cake and also ask to meet the dog as she had seen him in the garden and thought he was sweet so wanted to
Say hello.

Aibu to ask for your nice neighbour stories.?

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AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 05/01/2020 20:52

We don't see much of our neighbours except to say "Hello" if we or they happen to be outside when the other comes past, we just about know each others' names for three or four doors around, but there is a lovely helpful "feel" in the road, and we do each other favours if it seems appropriate. I like living here.

The absolutely full freezer and fridge went wrong just as my husband was leaving for a four-day work trip last year, having shorted out the whole house, and I was slightly in despair because I was afraid all the food would go off. I knocked on the neighbours' door next door -- and they sorted out space for all my food in their freezer and the neighbour's one on the other side of me, for as long as it took me to get a new one installed (which turned out to be ten days because we couldn't get the old one out through the door!)

And last time it snowed, I was outside clearing our sloping front drive so I would be able to get out and walk carefully to the shops and not break my ankle sliding down it when I was getting back in when the man opposite, who was clearing the snow to get his car out, told me to stop that and let him do it with his proper snow-shovel.

I just wish there were things I could easily do in return! But they are all younger and fitter and more competent and better cooks than I am, so it is difficult to think of ways to help them. I am mostly in the house, so I can always take in parcels for them, but that's about it.

The other thing is that our road is off a road that is quite a steep hill, and in the winter that road gets quite dangerous with snow and ice sometimes. There is a farm right up at the top of it and the man from the farm comes down in his tractor with a snowplough attachment and clears not just that road, which leads to his own house, but the three side-roads so that we can all get out. We have a collection for him in the local at the bottom of the hill to pay him for his time and fuel, but I get the feeling he would do it anyway just because he is a good neighbour to all of us.

raspberryk · 05/01/2020 21:17

Some lovely stories even just on the first page!
My old neighbours x3 lots in the old village where I lived were fantastic, when dd was born one saw me doing the school run the next day and told me she would take ds in future (ex was useless). She did so many neighbourly things I lost count.
Another was great for witnessing documents and signing passports.
One lent us an electric heater when our heating went down in the dead of winter.

Where I lived next one came to sit with me when my ex threatened to come to my house and take my kids.
Another dealt with the bins for everyone in the court yard.

Where I live now I had to ask for my neighbour to defrost my chicken in her microwave Blush as I'd forgotten I didn't have one anymore and I'd not taken our meat out for dinner.

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