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To ask him if he wants to join at Christmas?

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Cuppatea10 · 06/12/2019 15:03

Today I took my DS to his barbers. It's his dads (my ex) barber too. Well he seemed lovely and really good looking! He asked what my arrangement was for Christmas as he knows me and ex aren't together. I said I have my DS for Christmas and asked his. He said he was alone with his 2 DS this year. Said it was ok but would be hard to keep them occupied. Said he had them for boxing day too and his ex didn't want them for some reason. He didn't mention he had any gf whilst talking.
I text ex to show him DS hair and mentioned barber was going to be alone. Ex said he won't be he has a gf. I said oh he said he would be alone. Not sure if ex is lying as I know he got funny before when a guy he knew added me on social media. Me and this guy didn't talk but he still weren't happy about it so makes me wonder if he is lyi g about barber. I was going to give this barber my number and give him an invite to the pub we go to on Christmas day if he was going to be alone.
Would I be unreasonable or would I look stupid/a bit much for doing that? Also what my ex said puts me off but the barber never mentioned it??

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StrayWoman · 06/12/2019 21:48

May as well OP. Far weirder shite goes on these days.

dontcallmeduck · 06/12/2019 21:52

But he’s not alone he’ll be with his two sons.

Imagine if it’s a disaster and you’ve ruined 3 children’s Christmas Days because a stranger seemed nice and was good looking.

EskewedBeef · 06/12/2019 21:56

It would be weird for your kids more than anyone, to spend Christmas Day with a load of people they don't know.

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