I have just found out that my husband has been being dishonest with me and that it has been going on for a long time.
Some things are small and some are much larger-like a credit card debt he has had for all of our relationship (10 years+) that I wasn't told about.
I have a 4 month old baby and now know that he has been spending lunchtimes at the pub with his friend and trips to the cinema during the day when I would have really appreciated the help at home. I have been feeling low (possible PND) and have had very little support.
I have found things out due to looking at his texts which I have never felt the need to do before. It hurts that he is joking with his friend about a hot work colleague when I have been not feeling my best after the baby both physically and emotionally.
There have been a lot of things that he has done which have been dishonest and I just can't seem to get past my hurt and anger. I honestly thought we were on the same page about things as he knows how important honesty is to me.
He is currently staying with family as I can't have him at home at the moment. It's like i found out that he is a different person and I don't trust anything he says.
What's should I do?