Am I in the wrong?
Jamielyn · 04/12/2019 22:57
Just want to air something out that happened early on tonight.
My cat wears a cone and most nights we let her have it off so she can clean herself. I went to put it back on before we went to bed and I was struggling slightly because she was led on my stomach and I was also led down. My DP could see that I was struggling and offered to help, then I managed to get it on. He grabbed my wrist and yanked it away. I felt it was quite forceful so I just slapped his hand away.
He's now called me a c u next Tuesday for slapping his hand after he grabbed my wrist. I told him it was 6 of one and half a dozen of the other and we both should apologise. He's not having it and told me that I assaulted him.
I think we're both at fault here, but he's now making me feel really guilty. I've apologised and said that I feel he should too but he's not having it.
Please answer honestly, but not horrible, I'm aware the situation is abit tedious.
arethereanyleftatall · 04/12/2019 23:20
It's hard for us to tell I'm afraid as we weren't there so can't tell who grabbed/slapped harder. All I would say is that In the 20 years ex and I were together, we never slapped/grabbed/nor called each other [email protected]@@ once.
KellyHall · 04/12/2019 23:52
I'd say it's a symptom of something else that's wrong. You don't love someone in a sweet and nice relationship for 10 years then grab them and call them a c**t for no reason. Why's he been a twat? If he's got no answer, ltb, because he's obviously just decided to be a horrid arsehole.
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