So my father who wanted contact with me a few years ago after not seeing him since i was 3 was starting to get on my nerves. Showing jealousy just cause I was spending time with my mum and stepdad, and making up stuff about what I is apparently said but didnt. Ringing up drunk saying he wants me to call him dad and hug him more but I don't feel comfortable and expecting me too cook for him nearly every weekend when I can't afford. Anyway he wasn't getting the point of how it bothered me so I cut contact and said I didn't want anything from him. So he said ok just let me know when you do as I want your company. What!? and haven't heard from him since. Didn't ask to see me or the kids. Then suddenly there's a card with money in for my child. More than he normally puts in. And he didn't knock on the door or anything he'd posted it before 6pm because I went near the front door around then to get something.
And I've had no text nothing.
Is he trying to make me guilty into talking to him? Because that's how it feels.
I don't want anything to do with him.