Just wondering what people think, would it be unreasonable to stop taking my dds best friend to school in the mornings .
Bit of background I am not actually close friends with the mum of the girl I’ve been taking to school but our girls are best friends . She asked me to take her dd to school 3 times a week because we live close to each other and she was struggling to get her ds to pre school and her dd to school as they’re not close to each other and she doesn’t drive, I said yes but it’s proven to be a bit harder than I though . When I take her both girls get over excited and her dd tends shout alot when I’m driving , I’ve had to ask her to stop so many times , I’m finding that both my dds friend and my dd don’t listen when I’m asking something like to get out of the car or be quieter outside peoples houses in the morning , my dd is not like this on the two mornings we don’t take her friend . I’ve had calls last minute to also collect her from school too which is hard because I work evenings so it’s a rush after school getting dinner ready ect and then I don’t get home until 12pm because of this I’m also very tired in the mornings and am struggling with the two girls and my toddler ds . Parking around the school is also awful so if they are running a bit late I struggle to find a space . I’m finding it hard to tell her it’s not working for me any more because I know she’s been having a lot of problems in her personal life, the kicker this morning was one of her family members had been taken into hospital last night so her dd wasn’t going to school but she forgot to message me so I drove a short distance to her house parked outside and called her , she apologise that she had forgetting to tell me but although I feel bad for her this meant my dd was nearly late for school . I was thinking about telling her I couldn’t take her any more any way but now this has happened I think it would be terrible timing . What do you think I should do ? X