I don't drive a brand new SUV or 4x4 and my DH doesn't have a BMW or Porsche.
I don't take at least 2 foreign, ideally exotic, holidays a year.
I don't have a cleaner.
I love cats.
I don't have multitudes of friends for coffee mornings, wine and shopping trips.
I don't see colours when I climax.
I'm not a size 10.
I don't cook everything from scratch.
I don't hoover or clean every day.
I believe it's ok to sometimes find a member of the opposite sex attractive despite being married, perhaps even to enjoy a mutual flirtation or chemistry.
I understand that often in DV the victim can't just LTB and has nowhere to go and no-one to turn to.
I don't own a pair of pyjamas.
I have never taken drugs, not even marijuana, so I haven't lived and have missed out.
Reasons to feel there must be something wrong with me and my life.
Schwibble · 02/12/2019 15:49
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