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To hate the term "mumtrepreneur"?

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itseasybeingcheesy · 01/12/2019 20:47

I'm watching dragons den with DH and I've got the rage that they just described a woman as a "mumtrepreneur". DH thinks it's a stupid term but not a big deal.

I just hate it so much, it's so patronising.

If a man who has children becomes self employed and starts a new business venture he is an entrepreneur or businessman.
A woman who has children does the same and it's all cutesy and adorable and she's a "mumtrepreneur".

So does it give you the rage too?

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Dontsweatthelittlestuff · 01/12/2019 20:51

The only time I have seen it is on Facebook and then the mumtrepreneur is usually selling some MLM crap.

SaveTheTreesPlease · 01/12/2019 20:52

YANBU. Awful.

itseasybeingcheesy · 01/12/2019 20:53

Yes it's definitely more common online. I thought it sounded ridiculous then but hearing it on tv made it sound even more patronising.

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PapayaCoconut · 01/12/2019 20:54

It's like that course you can do to learn social media marketing. "Digital mums". Cringe. Why would anyone tote their parental status as a badge of honour in a work context? (Especially given that mums are often discriminated against at work...)

Dinosaurrawr · 01/12/2019 20:54

This is one of my pet hates. Right up there with #girlboss.

itseasybeingcheesy · 01/12/2019 20:56

@PapayaCoconut @Dinosaurrawr oh two other terms to rage about.

I've never heard of digital mums but it sounds condescending.

And girlboss makes me cringe!

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1300cakes · 01/12/2019 20:57

It's awful although to be fair I do know a self proclaimed "dadtreprenuer". Just as bad.

53rdWay · 01/12/2019 20:57

YANBU. Cringeworthy.

Loopytiles · 01/12/2019 20:58

What was the Dragon’s Den contestant selling and what were her stats to show success so far?

Emmapeeler1 · 01/12/2019 20:59

Yeah it’s awful. #girlboss has just made me cringe too.

PicsInRed · 01/12/2019 21:03

"Mumtrepreneur is effectively a respectable way of saying "thicky-woman-thicky", with a head tilt. It's patronising in the extreme.

Dadtrepreneur? No? Thought not.

7salmonswimming · 01/12/2019 21:27

It is awful.

I think it’s meant to denote a woman who is running her business around child-rearing (so probably computer and/or home-based, likely not available until 9.30am/ between 3-8pm, often online late, probably working some weekend hours etc), rather than child-rearing around working. That’s why we don’t hear dadtrepreneur so much: they leave the bulk of child-rearing to the mothers.

KellyMarieTunstall2 · 01/12/2019 21:31

Makes me cringe, along with sheboss, bossmom and other social media terms

totallyradllama · 01/12/2019 21:35

Sets my teeth on edge yadddnbu

Sindragosan · 01/12/2019 21:35

If it's a mum in a child centred business and trading off being a mother, not as bad. Applying it to anyone with kids? Patronising.

#mumboss and #girlboss are cringeworthy, why can't it just be #boss?

TurquoiseDress · 01/12/2019 21:37

YANBU

Utter cringe terms!

LolaSmiles · 01/12/2019 21:38

It's awful and straight out of the MLM playbook. I've seen it occasionally when people have started their own selling hobby tat on Facebook businesses too (note: not someone who is talented at a particular skills or area who actually creates good quality products).

Agree with PP. Dad starts a business and is an entrepreneur or self employed or a businessman / tradesperson.

When some women do it they're a momtrepreneur, girl boss who is #livingtheirbestlife

stopgap · 01/12/2019 21:41

@7salmonswimming, I think you’ve hit it on the head. Mom Boss makes me cringe, too, and nor do I like the term “stay around mums” which I’ve seen bandied about—used to describe MLM people, local IG influencers, and boutique owners—although that one makes my teeth itch far less.

Mimi40 · 01/12/2019 21:41

Anything that refers to women as 'mums' when the topic under discussion has nothing to do with their kids is patronising imho. I know not everyone agrees.

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