The sleep deprivation and mild hangover are making me a bit ragey so before DH gets up I thought I'd put it to the Mumsnet jury.
A few weeks ago my team were nominated for an award and invited to the ceremony which was last night. I'm currently on maternity leave but was also invited and it doubled as the Christmas party. I wasn't planning on going as everyone was drinking and I co-sleep with DD (10months) so wouldn't drink but would want to. DH said go, drink, he'd do night shift with DD and I could have a lie in. So I went, I ate, I drank, I danced, we won the award! This is my second evening out alone since getting pregnant with DD.
I got home slightly drunk, got handed the baby as she needed a feed (expressed milk in the fridge, but apparently she wouldn't drink it, meaning she's tired not hungry). DH went to sleep. I fed DD then handed her back to DH to settle and went to the spare room to sleep.
DS woke at 6am and got sent by DH in to me. DH then asked me to take DD as well as he'd had a bad night with her. So I've had 3 hours sleep, am slightly hungover and looking after two kids whilst DH sleeps the morning away.
AIBU to be pissed off? I'd rather he said he didn't want to do it, I could have chosen not to go, or to go and come home early, or not drink. I made choices based on what he had (self-suggested) agreed to but he's not held up his end. I don't go out a lot. Neither does he (a couple of times a month) and I always let him have the lie in when he's been out.