To be annoyed

[poorlymatchedsocks]

So I finished all of my Christmas shopping and told my DH because I was pleased. I bought him a number of gifts and one that he'd asked for about 2 months ago. He asked whether I'd bought his gift and he said he was going to buy call of duty as he'd wanted it for ages. I told him we didn't have enough for him to get cod as I'd spent about £80 on his Christmas present. I know he hasn't bought me a birthday present which is in 3 days or Christmas present and we're skint as have 2 dc's and 3/4 birthdays in November/December. When I told him we didn't have enough he said 'don't worry just send back what you've bought me'. Aibu to be really annoyed as I've put so much thought into his gifts

@Vulpine god he sounds it. not quite, plus 8

So he hasn't yet bought you a birthday present & he's not planning on getting you a Xmas present?!!!!!!

You’re being a mug. Why would you spend so much on your DH when there isn’t an equal amount to be spent on yourself.

Send back the game and treat yourself to something with the refund.

If you don’t make a stand on this, the situation will repeat over and over each birthday and Christmas for the rest of your relationship.