Do not want to ramble so will try and keep this short and concise.
Me and my Fiance have gone through a rough patch, no sex for 2 years, couldn't communicate and very nearly split up. I'm late 20s he's early 30s. We managed to get through it and in the past month have rekindled our sexual relationship. We've had intercourse once.
I'm not on contraception due to not having sex for two years I felt my body could have a break.
On the day of intercourse, I explained we shouldn't have sex because lack of contraception (did ask him to wear condom he said no) but didn't want to put him off the idea completely due to waiting two years for this moment! We did then start to have sex for around 30 seconds then I said stop because I was worried.
He then said 'I don't see why we can't have a child, we're financially stable, good jobs, home owner and been together for 7 years.' I then told him I would go back on contraception and he asked me not to. All of these things he said are correct but I still don't want children yet.
I now feel like I could already be pregnant, the day of the incident was my "ovulation day" I have a calender app that tracks my period etc. I've felt sick nearly everyday this week and I just really hope I'm not.
I feel I'm being selfish and unreasonable by not wanting a child and if I am pregnant I will be so dissapointed but I know my Fiance would be over the moon.