Put together some drawers for our baby, who is due in 5 weeks!
I've been waiting and waiting and waiting for my partner to clear the spare room of his stuff to be able to organise the babies things. He's had a lot to sell so I've been patient. Until now...
We had a little scare with the baby a little over a week ago and ever since we've been saying we need to get organised as anything can happen now.. she could come anytime and I don't feel prepared at all (will I ever??)
We don't have much room other than what will be the babies room to get her things together.. so today after my midwife appointment I text him 'Do you think you'd be able to get the drawers up for the weekend please? I really need to start sorting things out and getting organized. The baby could come anytime now and I wouldnt have a clue where anything is. Its really stressing me out x'
His response 'You do realise you weren't bothered about the room being done straight away for when she is here so it's a bit unfair to put all this on me when I'm doing what I can' now I've always said the room doesn't need decorating straight away.. we just need storage for her things for now. So I replied 'where do you expect her clothes to go? I'm not asking you to decorate just put some drawers together' this was the end of the conversation and he has come home from work.. not spoke to me.. put the drawers together and gone to bed sulking. Not one word to me.
Was I BU to ask him to put them together?
It didn't have to be today.. and he would be annoyed if I did them myself.. do I deserve silent treatment??
Sorry if this is a bit jumbled, I'm just exhausted and confused.