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This is ridiculous

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kittymcshitty · 27/11/2019 21:50

This is so ridiculous I can't even believe I'm writing it...

So for the longest time I've been CRUSHING on this guy whose not even particularly hot actually but there's something about him when he's near me I feel fucking weird!!! I get hot, agitated, nervous... it's so strange and intense and I just know he feels something too... he either feels like I'm a fucking nutcase and has noticed how weird I am around him (most likely) or he has feelings too!

Anyway of course I can't have him anyway as he's taken and so am I.

And to make matters worse his girlfriend has latched onto me as a friend... I didn't even know this woman up until a couple of months ago. Then in the summer holidays we spoke once at a park and I think she must really like me because she's always talking to me now (which makes me think she's probably actually weird because I usually repel people as I'm not particularly sociable or easy to talk to)

She's actually really nice...

Of course I wouldn't ever act on my STUPID ARSE FEELINGS

It's just feels like there's something weird going on... like there's something about these people, not just him... like we were meant to connect in some way... It's just so strange!!

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kittymcshitty · 27/11/2019 21:52

So AIBU to think this something weird or am I being totally ridiculous and overthinking

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ringme · 27/11/2019 21:52

If you’re lucky Maybe she fancies a threesome...

kittymcshitty · 27/11/2019 21:54

I'm fully ready to be told how crazy I am

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PurpleDaisies · 27/11/2019 21:54

What’s with the random CAPITALS?

He has a girlfriend. You need to do whatever you can to get over this. It isn’t fair to anyone.

kittymcshitty · 27/11/2019 21:55

@PurpleDaisies yeah I'm fully committed to never acting on it... just keep it in my head. Tried to get over it for so long!!

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kittymcshitty · 27/11/2019 22:01

@ringme ha, I hope not! I lost my sex drive a long time ago ... but yeah that was one of my crazy conspiracy theories. Like why did she get so close to me, people don't usually want to because I'm not really an open or sociable person... I'm friendly etc but just prefer my own company. I spend a lot of time with her now which means I got thrown into his world whereas before her I didn't know anything about him except for how he made feel.

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