I need to ask if IABU because I'm feeling totally rubbish after an argument with husband last night & part of me feels awful, but the other part thinks I am justified.
Early December last year my FIL passed away. They live abroad and I couldn't get to the funeral with a toddler in tow, so DH went and MIL came back with him. She stayed with us until the end of January, except Christmas week, which she spent with her other son and his wife/ child, as we had already organised to spend time with my parents.
Fast forward a year and I'm 20 weeks pregnant. I have a medical condition which really impacts my pregnancy and means food has to be tightly regulated. Understandably MIL doesn't understand this, as it's quite complex, but she LOVES cooking.
She was due to be arriving to us about a week before Christmas- she's now coming a week sooner. I had assumed that she'd be leaving around the end of Jan again, but it's been decided now that she'll stay into Feb.
I won't be allowed to carry my baby to term and have more chances of various problems, so this feels a bit closer to die date for me.
Our argument yesterday was because i'd asked DH about what the arrangements were and he told me it'd be Feb. I just want a clearer date really, and would've liked consulting on it going into Feb, but I'm ending up feeling guilty for asking, because she's bereaved & he's worried about her.
She's a lovely lady, but she does get a bit much sometimes. She likes things her own way and treats DH and I like children, so it does get annoying after extended periods of time. I know I need to chill out about that but it's hard when it's a bit undefined.
Christ that's long. AIBU to want a clearer idea of when she'll be leaving? AIBU to be a bit concerned about the length of her stay?