I've namechanged so much to get impartial advice.
So much that I can't even be bothered to see what threads I've posted under each namechange.
Anyway, I'm on UC (Intensive), have been for 5 weeks or so.
This was never going to be a long term thing. DP and I just happened to have work issues at the same time, hence the unemployment for both of us.
We applied for UC, all good.
Within 2 weeks I have been offered 2 good positions.
Job 1 is a provisional offer within this Civil Service (currently undergoing pre-employment checks.) Pay is £28k, full time, Mon-Fri. Pre-Employment checks can take weeks/months.
Job 2 is working with vulnerable, homeless (currently housed) people. Pay is 21k. Full time, various shifts over the full week. This position is due to start on Monday.
As I'm on UC, I'm expected to take Job 2 which is fair enough...
However, DP, when he finds a position, will be paid over £50k. There is no doubt about this at all.
If I accept Job 2, starting Monday. I will have to quit once my checks for Job 1 come through and all has been approved. Again, this could take weeks or months.
I'm worried about taking a position in direct contact with vulnerable people knowing I'm likely to leave in a few weeks.
I've always worked with vulnerable people in my line of work.
My heart says it's wrong to start job 2 because vulnerable people need a constant person in their life. Although, while I'm there, I'm certain I would have a positive impact, for however long.
My head says wait for Job 1, and not to bond with vulnerable people.
We, as a family, have no money for Christmas, I don't know what to do.