Not sure what the stance is on this, and I’m unsure if it’s my own issues creeping up that’s making me feel this way.
My 9 year old nephew is being bullied at school by a group of boys who were once his friends. They apparently ignore him majority of the time but have been teasing him and making fun of him also. My mum said that he said hi to one of them when she dropped him off a few days ago and he looked at my nephew like he was a piece of dirt. God that broke my heart.
School have said my nephew gravitates towards this group of boys in the playground even though they are horrible to him. When I was younger I did the same thing as I thought maybe if I tried to be nice they might stop being horrible to me, fuck it really hurts my heart to imagine him feeling the same way as me.
My sister (his mum) isn’t all that involved in his life, my mum does most of his care and she isn’t sure how to handle it. What id love to do is corner the horrible little shits and tell them to stop like the mum in that video but obviously I can’t because I’m a grown woman and would get arrested But would having a quiet word with their parents bu? The school have said they would handle it but if they don’t.. what do I do? How do we handle this?
He refuses to talk about this with anyone, how do we help him open up and see that it’s ok? Most importantly how do we get him to drop saying hello, trying to play with them etc?
He has no friends now, apparently the teacher said she’s had to ask two boys to play with him.
9 is old enough to know that what you’re doing has consequences. He is such a lovely and gentle boy, though has recently been diagnosed with adhd and they’re investigating autism also. He’s very sensitive, but really sweet natured.
Please tell your kids to be kind.
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Platypusmama · 21/11/2019 21:53
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