To not really care?

[Magazian]

I broke up with my boyfriend on Saturday. He was messaging me telling me to give him another chance etc. I said no and he's blocked me so he hasn't seen son since Sunday and I haven't put him on birth certificate as he hasn't came with me to register him.

This morning I was walking with son (4 weeks today). And I saw him and he said that he had sex with a girl from his college and he told her he didn't have a condom but she told him she was on the pill but yesterday she told him she wasn't.

Aibu to not care? Can I have some advice?

He sounds like an immature prick , well rid just focus on you and your baby

Firstly, congratulations on your baby.
He is saying stuff to get st you. Don't let it bother you.
Shown his true colours and needs to learn to grow up.
Good for you for getting rid.
Have you posted about him before? Being close with a girl at college?

Yes he was close with his friend from college and she fancies him but it was a different girl he had sex with.

He sounds really immature. Concentrate on you and baby.

Absolutely ignore, he's after a reaction. Daft twat.

Forget him. Focus on your lovely snuggly baby.

how old is her 12 ? ignore, ignore and ignore some more he sounds pathetic and immature., be a good mum to your baby

oh,meant to say keep him off the birth certificate but do contact cms about money for your child, he can shag whoever he wants but he HAS to pay for his child regardless.

The only thing I would care about is if he continues this could end with a bunch of half siblings to your child being created all over the place

I am ignoring him. He has said he isn't going to give me his money and he's said he wants to see son on Saturday

You need to stop worrying about him and concentrate on you and your baby. Build a life and get on with it

I know it's not easy but you will be ok xx

not going to give you money but wants to see son, forget that one matey, contact cms asap !

He said I can't force him to pay because he will just say he isn't the dad. And he told me not to tell his mum because she thinks we are still together.

How old are you both?

I'm 19 and he is 17. We were together for almost 2 years

Are you the poster whose boyfriend is only 17?

Ah, thought so.

You do care or you wouldn’t have started this thread, and It’s no crime to care. I would as well. I’ll hold my hands up. How ever the chances are. He’s making it up to make you jealous, and Hw is succeeding. Albeit subconsciously.

Yes you should care. You chose to have a baby with this child/man. You both need to sort out some amicable set up for the future.

cms need to know, you can have dna test to prove paternity and mum needs to know because she's probably going to give him a verbal clump round the ear [ he deserves it] he's probably scared of her poor lad