My partner and I have been together for just over 3 years. After a very hard year of renovating we have just moved into our first home together. During the renovations I often got annoyed about how he would go and play football, go out drinking, stay in bed all day etc when there were many jobs to do at our house. I did speak to him about this and he told me that he wanted a life, which of course I understood but I believe that sometimes you have to get your priorities right and sacrifice some of your free time for a long term gain - unfortunately he couldn’t see this. Although we have moved in there are still jobs that need to be done, jobs that would take a day or two to complete but he still is putting them off no matter how much I ask. What annoys me the most is that he goes out drinking with his friends for the day and then comes home and the next day just spends the whole day in bed. I wouldn’t mind if this was on the odd occasion but this happens every week. His friends are a lot younger than him but he needs to remember he is a 30 something with a house and a long term girlfriend. He often speaks about having children but I refuse to bring children into a relationship when he can’t even commit to getting out of bed. It would definitely not be fair on the children. He is in bed now as we speak, whilst I hoover and clean the whole house around him. I am sick of having the same discussions about his laziness and his teenage behaviour. Everything else in our relationship is great but this really is getting to me. Any advice would be appreciated.