It was a rough start, but I BFed for 13m.
We were both exhausted by a long labour before the EMCS. His blood sugars were low from getting distressed. I ended up in HDU due to complications. By the time he was given to me from NICU hours after he was born, he was too dopey to be interested in feeding and ended up on a 3 hour cycle of being woken to be fed by any means possible, directly feeding, hand expressing into a cup (I barely got out 0.5ml of colostrum the first night) and formula.
He must have been a good week old before I became engorged with milk, it was after Christmas and he was born several days before.
In the first days at home, he struggled to latch so I'd hand express a little, cup feed him, and then it was possible for him to latch.
The first weeks can be tough anyway, but a tough birth can make it harder to establish as the mother's body focuses on healing and baby can be tired or miss the optimum window for the first feed. There is not enough support to get through this phase, and mothers get rushed into giving up and moving to formula too soon before their body is ready to produce milk.
If I hadn't been on HDU with a good ratio of staffing for 36 hours and been straight onto main ward with a ratio of 1:14 with no support, he'd have ended up formula fed... then poorly from CMPA then on specialist formula.
Cushions helped a lot for the pressure on the wound.