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IIU to charge to see school Christmas production

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VanessaShanessaJenkins · 16/11/2019 18:37

Is it unreasonable (rather than am I) to charge parents for tickets to Christmas production?

For context: bog standard KS1 Christmas production of songs and a little acting, taking place during school time, in the school hall, with costumes parents have provided.

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summersherewishiwasnt · 16/11/2019 19:45

Schools pay for the sheet music and downloads, there is no spare money for that from their budget, it’s a £2. Unless you are on the breadline YABU.

BackforGood · 16/11/2019 19:52

Perfectly reasonable thing to charge for - as long as it is a reasonably small amount. It's something you will all want to see, and schools need to recoup the cost of things they do, where ever they can.

Ownerofmultiplechimps · 16/11/2019 20:01

Our school is charging for the 1st time this year £1 per ticket with max 3 per child per show. We also have to supply costumes for whatever part dc have. I don’t mind supporting the school, it’s a church school so receives a very small amount of council funding compared to other schools in the borough but the autumn/winter term is relentless for £. Easily been 1-2 requests a week since sept, worked out by the end of term we’ll be in for about £100+ with only 1 dc attending.

Purpleartichoke · 16/11/2019 20:04

Our school asks for donations to help stage performances. You send in money or items
during the planning/rehearsal stage. Wealthy school catchment so they always get enough that way.

JusticeForSandra · 16/11/2019 20:06

Sounds like a very good idea, but you will meet with so much "outrage" from some parents -usually the ones who can easily afford it! -- that a voluntary donation is easier to manage.

When you see how many threads about people disgusted about having to pay for a school uniform, don't even start them on the Christmas production.

Gustavo1 · 16/11/2019 20:09

Our school do a 50p programme which is basically a list of the names and roles in the play with one of the songs printed in the back and design by a ‘winning’ child on the front.
I hear the argument about paying for a play script and music etc but surely this is then retained by the school and can be used again in coming years?

isspacethefinalfrontier · 16/11/2019 20:14

it’s a church school so receives a very small amount of council funding compared to other schools in the borough

What makes you think that? Are you in England?

VanessaShanessaJenkins · 16/11/2019 20:15

To clarify on the above points- no scripts/ music are purchased. It's a basic small scale Christmas play/ production which involves mostly singing. A teacher play the piano. Costumes are provided by parents (school dictate what the child needs to be ). It's not a numbers issue as in the past parents have been allowed 2 tickets (for free) and if they would like more they go on a waiting list. This year they have decided to charge and parents are not happy. No explanation for the decision to charge has been provided.
£2.75 per ticket!

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Curtainly · 16/11/2019 20:19

As they are providing the costumes I think it is unreasonable, especially as they are told what they need to be so unlikely they can use stuff they already have. A bucket at the end is okay, but I'd be a bit miffed. What exactly is the money supposed to be going towards?

Downton57 · 16/11/2019 20:20

The school isn't likely to repeat the same show for a few years, so they do need to buy in quite a few. We bought some new costumes every year too, to replace ancient ones or for new roles. Christmas shows cost money, although not a huge amount, but the worst thing about them, in my experience as a teacher, is the number of complaints from parents they generate. See the 'only the PTA kids get speaking parts' threads, the 'that grumpy cow of a teacher wouldn't let my toddler up on stage' threads, the 'the staff wouldn't let me film the show, and I NEED to' threads. If the Nativity threads aren't on Mumsnet yet, they soon will be.

VerbenaGirl · 16/11/2019 20:22

Pretty standard now.

DobbinOnTheLA · 16/11/2019 20:22

I think a raffle for the front row seats is fine, otherwise a bucket for donations at the end.

Downton57 · 16/11/2019 20:24

Remember, the money isn't going in the teachers' pockets. It will most likely be used for paying for a theatre group, or class parties etc. You could ask?

WouldNeverAdmitThisInRL · 16/11/2019 20:26

Budgets are so tight in education now and parents will always pay to see a Christmas show.

It's maybe not fair but I can understand why.

VanessaShanessaJenkins · 16/11/2019 20:28

I'm a teacher myself. I know exactly what goes into a school event of any description! I've written multiple class assemblies etc and I've never known a school to charge for this type of event. A year 6 production which is performed in the evening and usually to a purchased script indeed but not ks1 kids singing carols during normal assembly time.
Was trying to gather if it was normal/ acceptable to charge and most so far don't seem to think so.

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crikeycrumbsblimey · 16/11/2019 20:29

They usually charge to give an idea of numbers. Free tickets mean people are more likely to drop out

Downton57 · 16/11/2019 20:32

I think it is unusual, for a school time event, but might it be a one-off charge for a specific reason? Have the parents asked, or are they just moaning on Facebook? Although obviously the school should have let you know if that's the case.

VanessaShanessaJenkins · 16/11/2019 20:39

Parents have only just realised. Was just announced on the weekly newsletter sent out after school yesterday (tickets priced £2.75 available to purchase from the school office from x date). No explanation given for cost/ decision to start charging.

I'll speak to the head next week.

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JusticeForSandra · 16/11/2019 20:47

No explanation given for cost/ decision to start charging.

Not sure why an explanation would be needed. Schools are famously and badly under-founded, every one knows that.

WoWsers16 · 16/11/2019 20:52

We charge £1 for tickets and there is no limit, it's a great way for a few extra funds for school and we are using it to help raise money for a new electric piano. I wouldn't mind paying £1- it's not expensive and parents don't mind - however £2.85 seems steep and a strange amount to me x

Italiandreams · 16/11/2019 20:57

Even if purchased scripts are reused, you still have to buy a new licence if you perform another year. It’s a tricky one as , I would hate to think a parent didn’t watch because they didn’t have the money, but equally we know how cash strapped schools are so it’s hard to begrudge them trying to fundraise. We just have a bucket for donations.

tillytrotter1 · 16/11/2019 21:02

We , a High School, always charged for school productions. The cost of licensing was massive, I was in charge of Front of House and tickets, I always massaged the figures as the amount was partly based on ticket sales.
When we go to the grandchildren's plays etc we always slip a fiver into the bucket and buy raffle tickets.

VanessaShanessaJenkins · 16/11/2019 21:02

sandra I was simply providing information that previous posters had requested!

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BackforGood · 16/11/2019 21:03

Was trying to gather if it was normal/ acceptable to charge and most so far don't seem to think so.

That wasn't the impression I got from reading through the thread, so sad that I am I've just counted.

6 people said they don't think it is fair / normal / acceptable to charge
4 suggested shaking a bucket for donations
4 said it is normal in their experience and didn't express if they thought it was a problem or not
14 said it was a perfectly reasonable thing to do

Not sure how you get from that, that "most don't seem to think {it is reasonable}" Hmm

Actionhasmagic · 16/11/2019 21:04

At secondary school I’m pretty sure my parents paid £2/3 for a ticket to our plays