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...To be devistated by lack of intimacy

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MoreSexPleaseImBritish · 14/11/2019 17:33

Me and my husband have zero love life. I have enough fingers to count the amount of times we have had sex in the past 2 years. We don't even share a bed anymore.

It's not just me he has lost his passion for...he doesn't seem to have a passion for anything.

I'm so lonely it physically hurts. Every time I try to talk about it he seems to become even more distant. I know I am not entitled to sex just because we are in a relationship but it really is just so empty without it.

I love him and he is so good to me in every other way but this is really destroying my self worth.
I'm in my early 30's, fit, attractive, smart, funny... he always says how he is 'punching' with me. Why doesn't he want me?

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Miketv3 · 14/11/2019 21:28

Sounds like it could be depression this. I don’t think the advice to leave is very helpful to be honest. Isn’t marriage about helping each other and being there in the bad times? I know he hasn’t helped himself So far but depression can leave you feeling so down that you can’t think straight and don’t about what happens to you let alone anyone else.

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